LETS BE SAFE!!!
I WILL provide that someone is "SAFE"
My Assistant will not respond to emails asking to verify that I had "SEEN" OR "VISITED" anyone.
I politely ask that we please Leave any variation of the word "see" 'seen' "visit" out of the messages
Or they will be ignored, please mention this to your provider
CLIENTS please always ask me how to get a referral:
I need to know that I have consent from your end to even give out a referral.
DO NOT USE ME IF: at the end of your session , i ask you if I'm allowed to keep your info , if there is no consent , then please do not use me as refernece I will respect you enough to have removed your information therefore I cannot find you in history
IF IT BEEN OVER FEW MONTHS:
I keep my inbox consistenty clean and organized as much as I can , I run out of storage that emails sometimes cannot be received, so, from time to time I do a mass delete. Your information may go with it
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ASK ME FOR REFERENCE
Please just ask about safety or if I can verify that I feel someone is safe to see. If I happen to have other additional notes on the potential client possibly passed onto me from the great vine, I would be glad to disclose if they are of any potential danger or harm Physically or Mentally
(Extra stuff you don't have to read)
Mainly because of personal lives on both ends !!
There are plenty of clients and providers to go around! And I hope everyone can be patient enough for some caution. Sometimes particular people forget to clean up their tracks where it counts for that particular person. Next thing we know, we have someone's significant other contacting us because they seen enough to dig further. And people get into trouble.
How I feel about this has NOTHING TO DO with keeping clients to myself..
( UPDATE: ITS BECOME LESS OF A TABOO)
I dont wanna
Lets think about how much we have had taken away from us .. OUR RIGHTS... and with the direction everything has been going its still a mix of what the outcome may be and how things will end for the people in this industry
But they could take more!!
If someone leading our country decided they wanted to come get the back pay of our work they can ... because our emails can be easily looked into and back logged now with the new laws in place..
(we are talking about that thing each year that is DUE every APRIL 15 uncle Sam! )
Most of us already have had to claim to that we can apply for homes. It would suck to potentially file twice
So Providers, let's not potentially screw each other up later on. Let's stay a step ahead.